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How would you feel, if you caught your friend whom you treated like your real sister, cheating on you.

Here’s the story:

You’ve been living alone, used to go somewhere alone, yet you used to live a place you’re not familiar of, only to experience how it feels like being alone. You took the risk of living in that place without knowing anyone. you lived far from your family, and friends, yet experiencing the life of being a stranger. in Short, you’re still learning the place and observing on how people act around that place. You didn’t mind whatever may come along, neither its loneliness or dangers, you took the courage of being so brave experiencing the life that you wished for.

So far you’ve enjoyed everything, and then all of a sudden you’ve meet someone along the road of your journey, someone that seems real and good, someone you think you can lean on and talk about things that matters. You became friends for almost two years, and so far your friendship went well and both of you enjoyed the things you’ve shared with each other.

You’ve treated her like your real sister, you appreciate all the things she’d done for you, you’re always there when she needs someone to talk to, when she needs someone to listen to her, yet when she needs something in times of difficulties and disaster. You’ve treasured her friendship and her loyalty as a friend, she’s been good to you and you really wished she won’t change a thing about herself.

Until one day, you’ve meet a guy in the internet (online) he showed some real interest in you, and he keeps on telling you that he wanted to get to know you better. You’ve chatted (online) almost everyday, seeing each other on Skype, had talked about everything, sharing both of your dreams in life and what do you want in one relationship, talking about his good intentions and yours. He used to call you on your cellphone even if it sounds like “expensive” to make an international call. He keeps on telling you how happy he is when he meet you (online) and that he’s really looking forward to meet you in person and show you how much he wanted to be a part of your life.

After few months of chatting, yet talking on Skype and on the phone, he’d finally decided to come and visit you. You were so excited to meet him and give him hugs and real kisses in person, you had this feelings that he’s an answered prayer, that he’s the one you’ve been praying for and hoping for. Someone you could spend for the rest of your life and cherish with.

To make the story short, both of you fell in love with each other—-

He bought a ticket and give you all his arrival information! And finally the time has come that he’s arriving, and you’re about to pick him up at the airport. your heart beats so fast, and you feel like a little bit nervous. But you were trying to relax and calm yourself down a bit, and finally the plane has landed, You’re at the waiting area, and finally when he came out and you saw him, you can’t explain the feelings that you had inside. There is no such place to put the happiness inside you, you hugged him and kiss him yet he did the same thing, now both of you can feel the presence of each other.

Out of your excitement, you called your best friend whom you treated like your real sister, you want her to meet your boyfriend and you want to introduce your boyfriend (who used to be your long distance lover). You asked your friend to help you find a place for you and your boyfriend, hence you’re not too familiar of the place around, and that you’ve thought she’s the only one who can help you when it comes to this matter.

She came around and help you find a place, then you introduced her to your boyfriend and your boyfriend to your so called best friend. Your best friend keeps on telling you that your boyfriend is so handsome and looks yummy (LOL). But you didn’t mind what she’s telling because she used to be that way everytime she noticed a good looking man around. You were not paying attention of what she’s been telling you about how attractive your boyfriend is.

As the night has come, you asked your boyfriend if you could invite your best to have a drink at the place you’ll be staying. Your boyfriend give you an approval. Now the 3 of you start talking and sharing some real good conversation, and then your best friend start getting naughty. Though you didn’t mind of how she acts because she used to be that way sometimes when you’re with her. She grabbed a bottle of alcohol and ask you if you would like to drink. Though you don’t used to drink an alcohol but she asked you to try, so you’ve tried! You’ve got drunk (since it was your first time) and had been knocked-out. You laid yourself at the couch, you can’t seemed to stand up, but you can still open your eyes, and see what’s happening around.

And then your friend asked you if you would like to go with her and your boyfriend to buy something to eat outside when in fact she knew you can’t stand up anymore! You said you won’t be able to go with them, so they left at the condo to buy something and get back after 30 minutes to eat what they bought. You can hear your friend talking about relationships with your boyfriend. And later on you’ve seen your friend at the bed talking with your boyfriend about things and stuff. And then you’ve seen your friend start kissing your boyfriend. And then you screamed and tell your friend that she’s a cheater and your boyfriend a jerk!!

Your so called best friend came close to you and tell you that she’s doing nothing and that she’s not cheating on you! You’ve started to crawl and get into the room where your boyfriend was laying down, you start hitting the wall like crazy, you cried! you laugh! and is hurting inside! (you realized that you were that crazy when you’re drunk)

You can’t seemed to accept what you have seen, you keep on telling your boyfriend that he’s a jerk. He took you up and put you in bed. The light is off, while you’re friend is at the couch. The television is on, while nobody is watching. Your boyfriend left you at the room. He went out at the room, and you’ve waited for him for almost half an hour, you’re trying to get up and crawl, and tell yourself that you can stand alone even if you lose your whole energy! After an hour you were able to crawl down the floor, you’ve noticed that there is no one at all at the couch! You’ve crawled again going to the rest room, you’ve tried to put your hands on the wall so you can stand up and there you saw both of them doing something inside the comfort room. Your so called best friend came out and tried to fixed her zipper up and told you that she needs to go home because it’s getting late! You asked her if there’s someone else inside the comfort room, and she said that “there is none”. Even though you know that your boyfriend is still there fixing his freakin’ zipper!

You went back in bed, crawling again , hurting deeply inside, and you can’t seemed to imagine how can a friend do that? Lots of questions popped up in your mind that makes you sleepless at that night. You keep on pretending that you didn’t know what you  what had happened. You really think that the man you slept with, during that night was a jerk and hell yes! You can’t seemed to accept!

Well, morning came, and you received a text from your friend, “asking” if your mad at her. Which obviously shows that she’s guilty. Although you’re not in mood to be around with your “cheating boyfriend” but since his trip isn’t over yet, so you have to try to get a long with him til he get back into his country.

Moral of the Story:

Do not trust a stranger- i mean even the one you’ve known for a couple of years could do terrible things you didn’t expect for

Well my conclusion about this story is that:

Even if your friend have done such things like that still you cannot judge her as a person. Though it would hurt you that much, because you have seen what had happened with your two eyes. but it doesn’t mean you cannot forgive them for what they had done. Yes, it would take time to heal your wounded heart and to fix what had been damage, but at least you’ve learn.

The only thing you should always remember is that:

“If God can forgive then why not us Human?
Though it may be easy for God to forgive those who have done wrong
But it would take time for us human to forgive and to forget what had happen.

But we also need to broaden our views, mind and understanding on how does God allows these things to happen in order for us to learn..something from our experiences in life,
It may not be easy for us but that’s the part of learning…